So three weeks ago we had Poppy spade, something we did not decide on lightly and even left until she was over 1 to do as we couldn’t fully decide. What swung it for us was the risk of puppies was no longer there. We could have managed the season every 6 months but Poppy loves to run and if a male dog had got to her we just felt we couldn’t have looked after puppies while working so it wouldn’t have been fair to her.
So the operation itself was a success, We had a rough night the first night with lots of crying and whining from poor Pops but the very next day she was already starting to look a bit brighter.
The below is day 1.
So we followed the rules and kept the cone on, we walked her for 10 days with that thing on and every other dog barking at her while their humans ‘aahhh’d’.
We went at 10 days at got her stitches out and everything looked great. The cone came off and we started walking and running again. She was so happy.
Then 5 days later a red lump appeared on her wound. The vet couldn’t tell if it was an infection/her body reacting to the stitches inside or what had happened so we were given antibiotics for a week and the cone had to go back on!
Poppy was sad again.
So every night and every day when we went to work we put it back on and looked at her sad little face. We had to get this wound sorted so there was nothing else we could do. My neighbour who let’s her out every day at lunch time had said Poppy wouldn’t even take a treat from her for 2 days which I think showed how sad she was!
But I’ve given the tablets religiously twice a day for a week and we are now finally healed! The wound is looking great and the cone is finally banished forever 😁
Yesterday she had her first run in a long time and she loved it!
Today Poppy is having a bath to get that stinky smell of the cone gone completely!
We are so pleased to get out puppy back to strength, it’s been a long 3 weeks for her but it’s finally over 😊
So today I had plans for a quick trip to the shops, a catch up with a friend and a visit to the vets. All of those things happened, the trip to the shops was great because I managed to pick up a Christmas present for T simply because it had Princess Tiana on and it’s so rare to see her on anything so I had to buy it. (T loves that she is also a Disney Princess.)
The vets appointment was ok, poor Poppy seems to have a little lump at the site of her operation which could be either an infection, where her body is reacting to the internal stitches or just hard tissue where it is healing so she is now on antibiotics for a week. Here’s hoping it sorts itself out! For now here is a cute picture I took the other day!
This afternoon I have also been painting conkers orange to look like mini pumpkins! We are having friends round tomorrow and I’m going to let the kids draw pumpkin faces on them, It was an idea I found a couple of weeks ago which I wrote about here so I will post pictures their finished products when they are done!
Then I had a friend round for tea and an overdue catch up which was lovely. We both seemed to have a lot to tell each other and she shared some good news about moving house which was great. Her cousin came to pick her up who I haven’t seen in years and it was so nice to chat to! You know when it’s just easy to talk to someone, there was no awkwardness, No why haven’t you been in touch, what happened to us as friends we simply moved in different directions at the time and there was nothing more to it. We have always kept in touch online so have a fair idea of what each other has been upto along with my friend keeping us both in the loop but today we ended up chatting for over half an hour when she was meant to be not stopping. It was just easy and made me think this is how life should be, It got me thinking about some difficult decisions I made about friendships nearly a year ago now and just reaffirmed that I made the right ones.
Surround yourself with the right people and life can be good, the wrong people can drag you down and really life is too short and has too many worries and stresses for friendships to be one of them!
Who knows if I will see this friend again anytime soon but I know if I do it will be just as easy and comfortable and that’s how it should be
So yesterday my husband ran his first half marathon. He has been training for it since the start of the year which hasn’t always been easy with some time off with injury but he has kept focused and really smashed it! He was aiming for under 1 hour 30 and came in at 1 hour 26 which meant he was 199th out of approx 5400 people. We were so proud and couldn’t be happier for him. It was so great to see everyone at his running club congratulating him on his great time and him feeling so pleased with his performance.
After the race T put his medal over his head in a cute little medal ceremony, he was so happy it was a great day.
Today I realised that my teeth had changed quite a lot in the last few weeks since my orthodontist appointment so I decided to take a photo, I was so pleased with what I saw! The top two teeth now almost look level and my bottom teeth are moving so much there is now a small gap starting to create that the one remaining tooth not in the wire can move into. I normally only take photos on appointments but this time I was just so pleased I had to share!
Poppy is back!
So 10 days ago my lovely cockapoo Poppy was spade and she has been making us feel guilty for it ever since! Today she got her stitches out and so can finally be without her cone! After a wash, dry and brush our fluffy Poppy is back snuggling on the sofa and smelling lovely! We are taking it slowly but tonight we gave her one ball and let her back up the stairs for the first time since the op. You could tell she was so excited to be part of the family again rather that shut behind the gate for her own safety. Welcome back Poppy, We have missed you!
Wow I can’t believe I made a year! When I started this blog it was as an outlet to share my experiences with braces as an adult and to hopefully learn from other people’s journey also. The thing is it’s turned into much more than that! I’ve learned I love to document my life! Sharing experiences, hobbies, days out, trips away, special moments gives me real enjoyment and it’s the lovely comments and likes I get from readers around the world that keeps me writing. I have written about so many things in the last year from my experiences as a step parent to buying our puppy last year. I’ve talked about my love of being married and the happiness it brings to my struggles of trying to progress a career while still being a present parent. I’ve continued to document my experiences with braces and will keep on doing so in the hope that they help others deliberating whether or not to take the plunge or are already on their journey. My new found love of walking/hiking has been a hot topic over the summer months this year culminating in a walking challenge which saw me walk over 80 miles in a month!
This blog has been like a journal at times being the first thing I want to do when I’m going through a tough time and a way to vent my frustration while also sometimes allowing me to see my opinions in a different light.
Reviews of places I’ve been have almost become a part of the experience now and it’s a given to my husband that some of the many photos I take will be specifically for my blog. If I can show someone how great a place was or how dog friendly somewhere can be and they can enjoy it as much as I did then my writing is all worthwhile.
There are plenty of mum blogs out there and I don’t just write about my experiences as a Mum but this has also been a huge part of my blog. Again if I can show someone else what we get up to and they enjoy doing it then why not!
Whatever my chosen topic is I would just like to say thank you to everyone that has taken the time to read my posts, like them and leave a comment. Without your interest I wouldn’t have continued to write and had 2 pieces published, something I would never even have attempted to do before this!
My plan for the future is to keep blogging, sharing my happy times and my sad times too, hopefully helping others with my braces experiences and reviewing everywhere I go!
I hope you’ve enjoyed my journey so far and here’s to the next year!
It’s nearly a week since Poppy was spade and she’s improved in leaps and bounds. She had her post op check Monday and her wound is healing nicely and she’s off the pain killers. The first few days she wasn’t her usual self and would get tired easily and still looked very sad but since Monday there has been a real improvement. She seems to have more energy, the spark is back in her eyes and she’s happy to see us again.
Our neighbour has been visiting her 3 times a day while I’ve been at work this week, we are so lucky to have such a kind animal loving neighbour, So she has had company as she can’t play with her toys or even chew a chew with the cone on so it all she can really do is sleep.
We have managed upto a mile at a time and she is walking just fine but other dogs don’t seem too impressed with her cone bless her!
Now she is getting her energy back she is struggling to see why she can’t run up the stairs or get up on the sofa so I’m now counting down till Monday when she gets her stitches out and we can start to get back to normal.
For now she gets tucked up in her comfy bed every night and has had her head washed today because she was starting to get a little smelly with the cone on 24/7!
If you are wondering why we haven’t taken it off just while we are with her, we tried for a little while yesterday but the second I turned my head she went for her stitches! So my little monkey will have to wait until Monday for her freedom back and she will be going on a nice long walk and getting snuggled up on the sofa to celebrate!
So today was the day that Poppy gets spayed. It’s been booked for weeks but we have all been getting a little nervous knowing it was approaching and today as I walked her to the vets at 8.30 I was trying to be as normal as possible but I wondered if the nerves were travelling down the lead.
We were the only people in the vets but she was still very unsure as I handed her over to the vet nurse. I blinked back the tears at leaving her for the first time and lied as I told T she was very brave and went in just fine!
The day passed quickly at work but she was never very far from my thoughts. When I rang at 5 30 I knew I had to keep busy until 6pm when I could go and get her.
The vets was busy when I went in so I made sure I settled up and got her pain killers and before they brought her out so I could just leave straight away with her. Then wow that moment when my sad looking little pup was brought out complete with lampshade style scratch collar just to make her look even smaller and more forlorn if it could even be possible.
There was no tail wag she simply came with me and walked the 15 paces to the car where I scooped her up and placed her gently on the front seat for the 2 minute journey home. Once home she had a very long drink and then got straight in her bed where she has been for the last 2 hours!
She is whining and groaning as she rests which the vet nurse told me is normal but it doesn’t make it any easier to bear. I keep stroking her head and telling her she is ok. I hope it is reassuring to her to know I’m here when she is feeling her worst. She has a neat little wound on her belly and a shaved front leg from the IV line and is due for her post op check on Monday.
In the meantime we have to keep her from jumping on or off the sofa, She can’t go upstairs and she can’t go off the lead. All of which seems completely irrelevant now while she is laying here whining and groaning but I’m sure she will get her strength back in a few days.
For now we have just managed her first trip outside for a toilet break and even s small wag of the tail before having another long drink and collapsing on my lap.
Get better soon Poppy because T will be so upset if you are still like this when she gets home at 5pm tomorrow.
So it’s a year today year since we brought Poppy home and it seems like she has always been here. She’s T’s best friend and my furry companion. She is always so happy to see us come home, we are her family through and through and she would do anything for us and loves just being where we are.
It’s crazy how much a little bundle of fluff can become part of your family and how you can’t ever imagine life without her.
Here are a few of my favourite Poppy moments over this summer:
Tea and a cockerpoo in bed, what could be better?
Happy 1 year as part of our family Poppy we love you!
When we brought this tiny fluffy puppy home in September we knew we would love her enormously but we had no way of knowing the impact she would have on our lives. Poppy has filled a space in our family we didn’t even know was there. She has grown different bonds with each of us and her little personality continues to change as she gets older.
She has changed in appearance from this tiny little brown pup to this light coloured, ginger eared young lady who is still by all accounts a very small cockapoo!
T has enjoyed having a puppy from the word go and feeds her every day, has no problem clearing up her mess and loves to go on a long walk with her. In-fact as a family we have gone on more walks than ever before because we now have a reason to! I have taken up walking as a hobby with Poppy and managed to walk 72 miles in May!
Poppy has completed a puppy training course over 5 weeks which meant a commitment from us as a family to go every Sunday and keep on training Poppy at home inbetween. This course meant I learnt more than I ever knew Poppy could do and gave me the confidence that I could train her and showed everyone, not just me, that she was so willing to please at every turn and learnt very quickly.
During her first year Poppy has had doggie friends come to stay and been to stay at other doggie friends houses, She loves spending so much time with other dogs and plays and plays until we sometimes have to separate them!
Poppy celebrated her first Christmas and was not at all fazed by the Christmas tree appearing in the living room! Santa even came to Poppy too!
More recently Poppy went on holiday for a week to my best friends house while we went away and behaved beautifully! With many walks out and about by various different people she left us very proud to call her our dog and was completely bowled over when we came back!
We love our Poppy so much and can’t believe she is 1! Happy birthday Poppy, enjoy your special day and keep being the adorable, family loving, clever, loyal and gorgeous girl you are!
So another month has gone and it’s fair to say I lost my motivation with a weeks holiday in the middle so although I have done some walking my goal of 60 miles was far off! With the holiday excitement/blues I’m just pleased I managed 42 miles!
Me and Poppy have had some nice walks the last week or so and it’s felt good to clock up some 3 or 4 mile walks so I’m looking forward to starting a new month and finding my motivation again! This should be easy as with a trip to the Peak District approaching for our Wedding anniversary we should rack up plenty of miles!
Yesterday we took a trip to Stanwick Lakes with my sister in law and neice and just strolling round with the kids we clocked up nearly 4 miles over a few hours. It’s a lovely place to visit with all sorts of wooden activity areas for the kids and lakes to explore.
This has to be my favourite picture of the day though 😁
This was a walk me and Poppy took Saturday to our local rowing lake, it was a hot one and we both flaked out when we got back after 4.5 miles!
Lastly this was our walk on Friday, I couldn’t make my walking group so we went out on our own for an hour instead.
I’d love to see pictures or hear or any walks you guys like to take!
Well this week has been a busy one for Poppy our cockapoo. Firstly the week started with awful weather so we had a few long walks in the rain and some short walks in heavier rain!
I have spent the week teaching Poppy to leave her treats until I give them to her and trying to complete the challenge set by our trainer at puppy class to have a treat on her paw and her not touch it. You can see I got a little carried away with this 😉 It’s not my fault Poppy is such a willing participant.
Poppy has spent plenty of time chilling with T as usual.
Today Poppy finally got groomed again! It has seemed a long 8 weeks and she was looking a bit scruffy so now she is back to a shorter more manageable coat and looking adorable once more! Today Poppy also came into season for the first time! This is our first dog so we are not too sure what to expect from her behaviour or if we won’t even notice a change at all, she is fairly late at 10 months but once we have this over with we will look at getting her booked for her op.
Today the sun finally came back out so we were able to get a nice 3 mile walk in after her groom, felt good to get out again.
Hope you are all having a great week, would love to hear what you have been upto!